Sex is far more complicated than I was ever led to believe. Sex is a pleasure, but it’s also a responsibility. Sex has a way of kicking down emotional doors. Sex is fun but sex is human, which. means it’s both literally and figuratively messy. Sex stirs up feelings you thought you’d locked away. Sex is about what you give, not what you take.
This is one of the best descriptions I've ever read about sex.
Great essay, John.